Today a friend of mine complained of his lack of satisfaction in his current relationship. Seeing my lack of supportive response, he then complained how boring a friend I had become and left. I am sorry, my friend. I cannot help you anymore when you are never happy with what you have. You have the most wonderful and beautiful girlfriend in the world who would do anything for you. Yet, you are always complaining. Love and relationship need to be treasured and takes hard work. Just think how lucky you are to be loved and be in love. While so many others in this world have to struggle with broken hearts and disappointments. Or think of all the unfortunate poor people around.
Yes, I am very honored that you trusted me with all your secrets. You expect me to be there for you just as you always did for me. Whenever you get sad or depressed, you would call me and I could stop whatever I was doing to talk with you for hours. Yet, there was a few times when I had real relationship problems and you just brushed it off and laughed. It hurted me a lot.
I know I might lose our friendship but I have to say this. I can't play the supporting role anymore. You used girls, you played around, you cheated on girls. It is guys like you who break girls heart and make us suffer. I can't believe how s I could listen and encourage you throughout the year; I would always nod and laugh at your stories. I never expressed how much I disagree with what you were doing. I even lied to those girls for you.
But how do you feel when guys treated me like that, my friend? Do you feel bad when I was sad and cried? I don't want you or any other guy to do this to any girl anymore. Can we stop this vicious circle?
Have you ever thought that if you live honestly, love sincerely and be satisfied with what you have, maybe you'll truly be happy?
Good on ya!
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