Cám ơn tình yêu (đã ra đi)

“Khi gặp được Mr Right thì những nỗi đau khổ từng trải qua sẽ không có ý nghĩa gì, và những chàng trai từng ra đi sẽ chỉ còn là những chương ngắn trong một cuốn tiểu thuyết với một kết thúc có hậu”

Cám ơn anh:

-Đã cho em những giây phút ngọt

ngào nhất, hạnh phúc nhất cũng như giúp em biết đến cảm giác đau khổ nhất

-Đã giúp em mạnh mẽ hơn, sáng suốt hơn, bớt dại hơn

-Đã giúp em biết sống vì người khác và cảm giác hạnh phúc khi muốn đem đến hạnh phúc cho người khác

--Đã giúp em vượt qua được nỗi sợ và mạnh mẽ hơn

-Đã giúp em hiểu gia đình là quan trọng nhất

-Đã giúp em biết yêu bản thân mình và hiểu rằng chỉ có mình mới quyết định tương lai, hạnh phúc của mình

- Đã giúp em nhận ra mình thật may mắn khi có những người bạn tốt, rằng mặc dù tình yêu của anh ra đi nhưng vẫn còn rất nhiều người yêu em

-Đã giúp em hiểu yêu một người là chấp nhận để người đó ra đi

-Đã cho em hiểu là cuộc sống không bao giờ như ý muốn, nhưng càng cần cố gắng và có niềm tin mạnh mẽ hơn

-Đã giúp em thấy cuộc sống thú vị hơn, đẹp đẽ hơn và còn nhiều điều ý nghĩa hơn

Và anh không còn là tất cả!

Thời trẻ dại dột thì người ta đương đầu với nỗi đau thật khác. Có thể đi chơi suốt ngày, uống rượu cho say hoặc hút thuốc cho tim đập chậm lại. Nhưng tất cả chỉ là giải pháp tạm thời. Giờ tôi mới hiểu, cách vượt qua nỗi đau tốt nhất là phải dũng cảm đối mặt với sự thật. Có như thế ta mới mạnh mẽ hơn. Không cần phải chạy trốn, vì mình chẳng làm gì sai để mà phải xấu hổ.

Đời thay đổi khi tâm ta thay đổi. Chỉ có khi tự vượt qua được trong sâu thẳm tâm hồn thì mới tìm được sức mạnh và sự thanh thản thực sự.

Mà không hiểu sao, các anh bạn trai cũ của mình lúc yêu thì làm mình đau khổ và bỏ rơi mình. Các ngày Valentine’s và 8/3 luôn chìm đắm trong nước mắt. Chỉ đến khi chia tay mới tặng những bó hoa và lời chúc (an ủi). Nhưng giờ thì mọi thứ đều vô nghĩa. Because you left when I needed you most.

Disclaimer: My blog is for entertainment purposes only, please do not take it seriously or personally. Thank you!

A diversified portfolio

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This is a continuation of my other post Who would you choose?

Ladies and gentlemen,

I am please to announce the addition of Mr. G (a.k.a. “The bad boy”). This should complete and diversify the “love” investment portfolio. Since there’s no such stock called “Mr. Right” or “Prince Charming” to buy, we might as well invest in a range of stocks of “Mr. Alright”, “Mr. Right here”, "Mr. Right now" or “Mr. Almost charming”. A diversified portfolio is every girl’s best friend. It protects her from any swings in the market but still gives her a good rate of return.

This is a sales pitch for Mr. G:

Mr. G (not G-string though)

In his late, very late twenties. High school dropout. No stable job, doesn’t care too much about money but never goes out without it. Parties all the time, smokes, drinks, and flirts a lot. Obsessive with soccer and cars; always has girls to hang out with and makes them feel very very comfortable around him. Gives girls the assurance and safe feeling when around him. Makes them enjoy their current moment and not have to worry about what’s gonna happen next.

The stock of Mr. G can be classified as a speculative stock (a stock that is highly likely to have very low or negative returns because it is almost always overpriced. These stocks have a low probability of a return near that of the market but a slight probability of an enormous return). Please proceed with caution when considering this stock. There is significant risks involved (as we all know, high risk, high return). While the prospect of an enormous return might sound attractive, it is not guaranteed. You also might get some immediate dividends (he makes you laugh and makes your heart skip a few beats) but the dividends payout is also not sustainable (here today, disappear tomorrow). And don’t be surprise if one day all your stocks value suddenly dropped to $0 (and leaves you with a broken heart). So go ahead and buy a few shares for the fun and the thrill of taking risks. But just don’t invest all your money in this stock.

If there is one thing everybody should learn about investing is to have a diversified portfolio. Or as our parents always taught us “Do not put all your eggs in one basket”. Girls are complicated and need different things at different times. Therefore we need to invest in different types of “love” stocks. A smart guy to help you with your homework, a successful guy to help you with your career, a funny guy to make you laugh, a caring guy to lend you his shoulder to cry on, a hot guy to flirt with, a bad guy to share your adventures with, and a guy in a different time zone to call in the middle of the night when all the other guys are sleeping.

But it also depends on your investment return objectives. Some girls invest for the long term, some for the short term, some wants current income but others want capital appreciation. Some are more risk adverse than others. So depending on your objective and strategy, choose your asset allocation wisely. If you want current income, invest in each stock equally. But if you are in it for the long term and want capital appreciation, choose the stock you like best and invest 90%, spread the remaining 10% evenly between the other stocks. And don’t forget to leave some money in your savings account. Although the interest is pretty low, you will still have some money left for “old age” in case of a stock market crash like that of 1929 or 1987 .

Disclaimer 1: My investment advice is free and is only worth what you pay for. I am not responsible for the outcome of your investments whatsoever. Please also keep in mind that there are additional costs in having such a portfolio such as the time answering calls, IM and text messaging from all different guys. Please be warned that no investment strategy, no matter how superior, can protect you from getting hurt.

Disclaimer 2: My blog is for entertainment purposes only, please do not take it seriously or personally. Thank you!

Who would you choose?

Mr. A: In his mid thirties. Average looking. Has worked and traveled around the world. Went to a top school. Currently holds a high position in a top firm. Quite romantic at heart but not socially skilled.

Mr. B: In his late twenties. Average looking but a bit cute. Extremely shy. It took him a lot of nerve to approach you and ask you out. Steady job. Has a good sense of humor. Actually tolerates your adventurous and crazy side.

Mr. C: Young, poor PhD student. Smart, hardworking, talented, reliable. Would make a good husband. Tall and good looking. A little bit boring in real life.

Mr. D: Young. Below average looking. Madly in love with you. Changed his life upside down to be with you. Extremely motivated and hardworking. Not funny (a little bit weird). Would do anything to make you happy and protect you.

Mr. E: Early thirties. Below average looking. Workaholic. Very successful and famous in VN. Brilliant. Has his own company, a big house, a car (everything set for marriage). Disciplined but Open minded. But also traditional.

Mr. F: Young student. Your ordinary guy. A bit nerdy. Can be funny and cool. Always there to cheer you up. Tries hard to impress you. Has interest in things you like such as special music, opera, poetry, wine.

Disclaimer: My blog is for entertainment purposes only, please do not take it seriously or personally. Thank you!

Who would your lucky guy be?

Mr. A - Good life.

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Mr. B - Adventurous and caring.

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Mr. C - Good-on-paper.

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Mr. D - Right here waiting.

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Mr. E - Successful and smart.

4

Mr. F - Young and fun.

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