How to meet guys

I was having coffee with some girl friends the other day when the topic of “How to meet guys” came up. Some of my friends complain that if they just go to work every day, go home, and then at weekends hang out with their friends, they can never meet anyone new.

So here is my attempt on answering this question. And these tips are not just theory, but based on my real experience and observations. Guys, please give me your feedback on whether it works!

1. Join a gym. So many couples have met while working out in the same gym. Better yet, wear something noticeable. But be serious when working out!

2. Go jogging outside

3. Play and join a club sports: badminton, table tennis, martial arts. Whatever.

4. Volunteer: this is the best way to meet a kind-hearted guy.

5. Sit in a coffee shop: by yourself, read a book or use the computer. Enjoy your time alone.

6. Attend a concert: whether it is a classical concert or a rock concert. If it is a rock concert, just dance by yourself to the music. You never know what’s around the corner!

7. Go to conferences and career fairs: there are lots of conferences on different topics (especially in Vietnam). Better yet, volunteer to be the speaker or forum moderator or coordinator of some events!

8. Join forums/clubs and offline events: join an online forum about topics you are interested in and attend offline events to meet members.

9. Invite yourself to networking events or company parties: lots of your friends companies have networking events. Ask to attend their networking events. Even if you don’t meet a future boyfriend, it will be good for your professional life.

10. Ask friends to set you up: even your closest friends might have friends that you have never met. There is nothing wrong with asking your friends to set you up on dates with their guy friends who they think might click with you!

11. Travel alone or with a new group: even when you travel by yourself, there is a very high possibility of meeting a like minded solo guy traveler on the same route. The more adventurous the nature of the travel (mountain climbing, road tripping etc.), the more bonding there is!

12. Take a class: something you want to learn, something interesting. Or maybe even start an MBA (but check the average age and marital status of students before applying).

13. Attend friends’ house parties: and impress guests by bringing a home-cooked dish or dessert.

Things happen when you least expect them to. You never know what’s around the corner!

However, please note that this is only a guide for meeting and maybe attracting guys. This is by no means a guarantee that the meeting will turn into a loving relationship or the end result of marriage! For tips on turning a potential boyfriend into a potential husband, please refer to the various guidebooks out there in the market (contact me if you need recommendations).

Disclaimer: My blog is for entertainment purposes only, please do not take it seriously or personally. Thank you!